The stunning
country of Finland, known to many as the land of a thousand lakes, is rich in
beauty, culture and tradition.
Like many, Finnish people love a good wedding
and it is at the wedding ceremony that we see many of their rituals and
traditions at work. We’ve chosen a few of our favourites that can be easily
incorporated into your own wedding whether you are of Finnish heritage or not.
On the day of her wedding, as the bride prepares for her big day, a golden
crown is placed on her head for her to wear throughout the ceremony. She
continues to wear the crown as they commence to their reception and it remains
on her head until the time that the ‘Dance of the Crown’ is performed.
This ritual dance sees the
bridesmaids place a blindfold on the bride as they begin to move around her,
dancing and confusing her of their place. Much like the tradition of the garter
toss, the bride then places the crown on the head of one of the bridesmaids (it
is left to fate as the bride cannot see who she is placing it on). It is this
bridesmaid that is then, according to the tradition, the next one to be
married.
Another fun tradition that
takes place at a Finnish wedding is the dance to end the celebrations. This is
something that anyone could include in their wedding just for something
different and fun.
The last dance is known as the ‘Weaning Waltz’ and a group
can be easily shown how to participate. To kick of the dancing an instrumental
waltz is played as all female guests dance with only the bride and all male
guests dance with only the groom. This works best if everyone gets in on it,
even the grandparents and older guests and small children assisted by their
parents. The bride and groom are whisked around the dance floor, briefly
dancing with guests who endeavour to make them ‘forget’ their marriage partner.
There is lots of laughter and fun until the bride and groom finally return to
each others arms to complete the dance and show to all present that nothing can
keep them apart.
One of the most magical
things about rituals and traditions in ceremony is that you don’t have to be a
part of that culture to incorporate some of the fun and meaningful elements
into your own ceremony. Find one that suits you as a couple and will add to
your enjoyment of your day.
The Wedding Gurus xxx
